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Girl Too Hot to Marry
Dating for marriage is hardest for the hottest, you probably couldn't pull it off.
May 8
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April 2025
The Value of Others — a Dialectic
A book so wild I couldn't just review it, I have to argue with it.
Apr 30
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Standing there Being Hot Isn’t a Love Language
The temptation of being tempting, the mismeasure of love, and the risky work of intimacy.
Apr 21
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Soulmates
Most people believe in soulmates, but no one knows what exactly they believe in.
Apr 14
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Coupling for Decouplers
Rationalism struggles to figure out dating (to say nothing of the rationalists)
Apr 7
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March 2025
Pods and Ends 2
Three podcast appearances, and a teaser about rationalism vs. dating
Mar 31
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Moonlight Reflected
Women who yang and men who yin don't need my advice, but they need to commit to the bit
Mar 28
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Navigation by Moonlight
The power of yin: wielded by women, invisible to men, and everywhere under attack
Mar 21
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Girls Don't Talk about Sex Differences
But someone should, so we can all understand each other better.
Mar 14
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Review: Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus
Outdated pseudoscience or a classic tale of alien encounter?
Mar 7
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February 2025
Romantic Friends
Your friends are your dating life, whether you date them or not.
Feb 28
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You Are Not a Thought Experiment
You get to make the choices you deserve to.
Feb 21
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