I had this realization where making this one person happy just gave me a tremendous return in joy. I used to think it was just that— sympathetic joy, but now I wonder how much of it was also just the other person's responsiveness. Personal note: be more responsive!
If Sasha's responsiveness is about having an impact on someone, then your surrender is about allowing ourselves to be impacted
Also, I'll see you at LessOnline :)
I had this realization where making this one person happy just gave me a tremendous return in joy. I used to think it was just that— sympathetic joy, but now I wonder how much of it was also just the other person's responsiveness. Personal note: be more responsive!